Christian Marriage
Marriage is an institution
that was created by God to be experienced by one man and one woman for the rest of their lives (Gen. 2:24).
A Christian marriage, when done according to God’s plan, is supposed to be a
blessing for each couple (Gen. 2:18), as the couple submits to one another in
their marital roles to the Lord (Eph. 5:21). The wife is called to submit to
her own husband in obedience to the Lord (Eph. 5:22-24), and the husband is
called to submit to the Lord, by fulfilling his role as the spiritual, loving,
servant-leader of the home (Eph. 5:25-31).
When both husband and wife
consistently strive to fulfill their marital roles in this manner, it blesses
both partners, and paints a beautiful picture of what a relationship with Jesus
is supposed to look like for others to see (Eph. 5:32).
And yet, the reality of
marriage, even Christian marriage, is that the only perfect individual was
Jesus, and therefore marriage takes a lot of work, and needs a lot of grace
being offered up by one another on an ongoing, never-ending basis, due to the
fact that both husband and wife are both a work in process with God (Gal. 5:17), and will
not be perfect until Jesus returns and takes us to heaven (Phil. 1:6).
Though painful and
emotionally exhausting, disagreements can be a beautiful thing in a Christian
marriage from time to time, simply because it enables the couple to extend, and
receive grace and forgiveness to and from one another on a regular basis, and
is a beautiful picture to the watching world of how the power of God, and His
love and forgiveness works in each couples life (cf. 1 Peter 3:1-7). It is
truly a beautiful picture of the gospel being lived out in each couples marriage
when this takes place.
However, the goal of course
for each marriage, is to obviously be filled with (Eph. 5:18), empowered by,
and led by the Holy Spirit, allowing Him to form Christ in both the husband and
wife, so that the fruit of the Spirit will be at work in both of their lives
(Gal. 5:22-23), and the world will see something extraordinarily special (Eph. 5:32).
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